Women are very different from men when it comes to sex. To hear a man talk about sex, you might imagine that all he does is hump the wall and rub his woman’s clit.

That’s exactly what many men say happens in sex, to begin with — but the truth is that sex is a much more complicated thing for a woman and without some very basic understanding you’re going to have a lot of trouble giving your woman great sex.

To understand why understanding the above elements are so essential and how to operate them to give women great sex is easy, I want to look at 5 aspects of great sex that the average guy overlooks.

Sexual Stamina

sexuality is a way to overcome the human’s biological ‘element’, the human’s instinct to procreate and rear their offspring. Human sexuality is tied up in issues such as when a man wants to use to find a mate.

The guy who wants to get lingerie beyond a girl’s delaying tactic probably doesn’t care about her feeling pain or pleasure during sex very much at all. He’s much more concerned with his own psychological needs.

So when it comes to sex, the guy is very much like a rabbit. In the process of chasing the rabbit,  he keeps catching the rabbit, over and over, until he’s got it. And in the end, he gives up (or goes home).

What the heck is going on here? Our guy is used to running away from danger, tension, and friction. And when it comes to sex he’s hell-bent on getting there as quickly as possible. Which is exactly why the guy wants to engage in sex so badly.

So when the question is asked of “does size matter?” it is not whether size matters, it is whether it makes a difference.

Having a guy who is too small for you to accommodate and is causing pain is a prime example of what happens when he isn’t satisfied. With that said, if your man is too small and not satisfied, there is a good chance he is unhappy with his sex life.

So does size matter?

Our sex lives are based on many factors, some of which are purely out of our control. That being said, it is true that size does matter to a woman in many, if not most, cases.

So does it matter to a woman and does it matter to her partner in their relationship?

It matters in cases where there is open communication.

The problem is that for the guy to talk about it, it is likely to make him feel worse about himself. Most men will simply tend to sweep under the floor if they find out that their size is not as great as they thought it was.

So what is the best approach to finding out your man’s size?

In this case, you need to ask him. Most guys will be comfortable sharing their current size and performance with you. Then you can begin to work on a solution that will put the size issue to rest.

If you can get him to talk about sex in a completely honest, matter-of-fact way, you will be able to find out his needs and you will be able to come up with a solution that will satisfy both him and you.

It is your goal to have him cure his premature ejaculation so you can resume having sex. In the meantime, here are a few tips to help you get started.